Saturday, February 21, 2009

Ladies and gentlemen !

I announce to you that there’s no thing like the perfect relationship!

There are always scratches , even if we believe everything will be okay. But then , why do we still hope for a perfect relationship and keep searching in the ocean of men for the special one? We try to act mature while we’re so silly believing it this myth , because we all exactly know that the perfect relationship doesn’t exist.  The mother nature gave us the great drawback that complicates our life so much – a hopeless hope . Why ? Did we really deserve it ?

I always thought that all my relationships I had so far were perfect. But the more I think about it, the more obvious it seems to me that any of those was perfect. My relationship with sweets was a complete failure , plus – it was unhealthy, even though it seemed to be so sweet. My relationship with painkillers and other pills didn’t give me more than another problems with health. Another relationship, the one with coffee and cigarettes , that I’m still in, became an unhealthy and pointless addiction . The one with music is really awesome but it gives me so much disappointments that sometimes I’d rather be deaf than playing the violin and studying all that music stuff. Finally, my relationship with the man I love so much keeps surprising me , because this one seemed to be the relationship I’ve ever dreamed of. Suddenly it turned out as a big, long-distance mess  that shapes my lifestyle, my future and mood all the time. Well , it doesn’t sound so perfect. I should end it up but this little thing called love makes me believe that all that stuff happens and I am just overreacting.

I am certain that all of us can give at least one example of such relationship. We need to be in relationships , to be involved in different kind of affairs to function properly , even though we know it won’t be perfect. How about we stop looking for the perfect relationship and settle for the fine one? Why can’t we accept the fact that nothing is perfect and we keep heading all those sad disappointments . I don’t mean that I’m wiser than all people out there and I don’t suffer from sick relationships anymore, it’s rather inversely but why does it have to be so painful when we find out that any relationship will never ever meet our needs. It makes me feel so upset and disappointed, again.

Maybe we just need to be disappointed to feel that we are alive ? Maybe we’re in a relationship with disappointment ? Which is not perfect as well. 

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